Saints Cyril & Methodius
Bulgarian Orthodox
Mission
McLean, VA
The
Publican & The Pharisee
Sunday, February 17,
2008
Orthodox Church in
America
Diocese of Washington
and New York
(www.oca.org)
Our Bishop is His
Beatitude HERMAN,
Archbishop of Washington and New York,
Metropolitan of All America and Canada
QUESTIONS:
In
the country I visit often I am denied communion for the following reasons:
1. Frequent communion is bad for you.
2. You ate meat with us last night so you can not receive the mysteries today.
3. You have not been fasting from for the past three days.
ANSWERS:
What you describe in your e-mail is not uncommon in many Orthodox lands -- and,
for that matter, in some instances in North America.
Permit me, if you will, to offer explanations as to the rationale for each of
the attitudes you have encountered.
1. "Frequent Communion is bad for you."
This statement must be qualified. While the point of our lives as Christians is
to enter into and grow in our common union -- "communion" -- with God
and with His People, the reception of Holy Communion should not be approached
casually. St. John Chrysostom tells us that, while the Eucharist is indeed the
fountain of new life, it can also be for those who receive it casually or
without proper preparation a fire which can condemn us. Hence, such a statement
must be understood in light of the spirit in which the statement is made: that
the reception of Holy Communion without proper preparation -- without
repentance, without a genuine desire to turn our lives around, without seeking
God's forgiveness, without prayer and reflection on the course of our lives --
can indeed be spiritually harmful and can, as St. John Chrysostom asserts,
ultimately condemn us. It is not "frequent Communion" per se that is
"bad" for us but, rather, receiving Communion without appropriate
preparation and repentance that is "bad" for us. There are many
instances in which people receive Communion frequently without proper
preparation simply because, in many places especially in North America,
everyone is expected to commune at every Liturgy. While St. John Chrysostom
once complained "that the sacrifice is offered, yet no one approaches the
Lord's table," one must approach the chalice "in faith and
love," with humility, in a spirit of repentance, and without holding
grudges or anger against others. Scripture itself reminds us that, if we have
something against our brother, we should leave our gift at the altar, seek
reconciliation with our brother, and then return to offer our gift (see Mt
5:23). Here we are clearly reminded of the importance of proper preparation for
the reception of Communion.
2. "You ate meat with us last night so you can not receive the Mysteries
today."
I have encountered this before, even from priests who have eaten with
laypersons on the eve of the Liturgy, yet who themselves commune while
chastizing the laity with whom they ate and drank the night before for doing
likewise. The spirit of this regulation is, again, found in appropriate
preparation for the Eucharist: One should not "party" the night
before the reception of the Eucharist. Of course, if one has "partied
hard" on the eve of the Liturgy, one should refrain from receiving the
Eucharist; however, if one simply shared a normal Saturday evening meal, this
should be no obstacle. Everyone does not understand the "spirit" of
the regulation, which also must be humbly acknowledged without passing
judgment, which can lead some individuals to feel that eating, even for the
purpose of sustainence, is not permitted. Also, there are bound to be those to
take the regulation which states that nothing should be taken by mouth from
midnight the night before one receives the Eucharist to the N-th degree as
well, thereby barring anything from being taken by mouth, not just from
midnight, but for a longer period. It is only my opinion, but if one is given
to associating with individuals who believe that eating on the eve of the
Eucharist -- without partying and drinking and carrousing in any way -- is an
obstacle to the reception of the Eucharist, one should avoid eating with such
individuals, opting to eat alone or to eat with those who do not take the
spirit out of the law, so to speak.
3. "You have not been fasting for the past three days."
In many places, there is a custom of fasting for three days or even a full week
prior to the reception of the Eucharist. This is not a universal custom among
all Orthodox Christians, and there seems to be a variety of explanations as to
why this custom has taken hold in some places. While this is not the custom among
perhaps the majority of faithful within the OCA, it is a long-time, ingrained
custom elsewhere. What is unfortunate is that generally the focus here is
neither on repentance, nor on changing our lives, nor on seeking forgiveness or
reconciliation or a common union with God or His People but, rather, on
fulfilling a regulation or "obligation" to fast for three days --
period. It is my opinion, however, that if this is the custom in the place
where one is, one should again humbly and quietly follow it, rather than create
further discomfort or scandal.
I, like you, have traveled to traditionally Orthodoxy countries on many
occasions, and I, like you, have also witnessed such attitudes. I would say,
however, that the return to the Lord's Table will occur in God's good time,
rather than in ours.
In Russia, for example, one is likely to find the precise attitudes you have
encountered above, even though one of the most revered saints at the present
time, Saint John of Kronstadt, was an advocate of frequent Communion -- with
proper preparation, however. Icons of Saint John invariably acknowledge this,
as he is generally depicted holding a chalice in his left hand while pointing
to its opening with his right, in a gesture of invitation to commune. But one
must keep in mind that, between the time Saint John passed away at the
beginning of the 20th century and the time that the Church was free from
communist persecution some 80 years later, a lot had happened that pushed back
the process considerably. Hence, if you consider the attitudes you have
encountered in light of the society and setting in which they are being held,
you should come to a greater appreciation of why such attitudes have developed
and continue to be perpetuated.
While you did not mention the country you visit often, and while I may be wrong
to assume that it is a formerly communist country, I think that the same
principles could be applied, even if you are speaking of traditionally Orthodox
lands that did not have to endure persecution and repression under the
communist regimes of the past.
Special Parish Council MeetingThere will be a
Special Parish Council Meeting on Thursday evening, from 7 Pm to 9 PM on
February 28 at St. Luke Orthodox Church. There will be one item of business on
the agenda and one item only. This
agenda item is a sidscussion regarding whether or not to offer a contract for
the purchase of property to be a church. If the Parish Council decides by vote of
the Parish Council, to make such an offer, the Parish itself will vote on
whether or not they wish to accept the recommendation of the Parish Council to
offer a contract. All members of the
Parish in good standing may vote.
A member in good standing is one who is a member of the Parish and in
Eucharistic communion as validated by the Parish Rector.
Sts.
Cyril & Methodius Bulgarian Orthodox Mission
Bulletins prepared by Fr. Timothy.
For more information
please contact:
(Fr. Timothy Perry)
703.385.2049 or (Mr. Mat Mathews) 703.759.5528
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